How to make sure you have enthusiastic consent for sex

Only having sex with people who want to do it shouldn’t be a difficult concept.
But every time the topic of consent gets brought up, there’ll be one comment from someone who seems confused about what consensual sex actually entails.
So let’s make it absolutely clear.
To engage in anything sexual with another person, you need to have consent.
Consent is not just the absence of a no. It’s also not saying a hesitant yes.
Consent for sex needs to be enthusiastic, stated clearly, happily, and without any pressure to do so.
If someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs, they’re not able to... read more